Alternatives to penetration
Intercourse is so passé! Try these alternatives for a change.
Out on a limb: Hold his penis tightly between your thighs or in your armpit. Lots of lube makes this extra special.
Treasure chest: Hold his penis tightly between your breasts – he’ll love pushing into your softness and you can also have easy access to kiss and lick him.
Give 'em a hand: …: Masturbate each other then have him cum on your breasts or back.
I like to watch: Watch each other masturbate – it can be very exciting to see your lover make him or herself cum.
Play time: Vibrators, dildos and other sex toys enable you to vary the size and shape of what is pushed into you, and can be completely safe if kept clean or used with a condom. Women who have never had an orgasm may find that sex toys are the easiest way to achieve this.
A close shave: Ever tried shaving each other 'down there' – it requires a steady hand and not too much giggling, but the power play and control as well as the feel and new access beyond hair can be a very sexy experience.
The tits have it: Some women like their entire breasts to be gently stroked with finger tips; the underside are often super sensitive. Slowly trace big cirlces around the breast, gradually getting smaller as you close in on the nipple. Once you’ve tried it with your fingers, follow suit with your tongue, then pucker up for a nipple suck (courtesy of www.modernloving.com)
Take yourself for a ride: We’ve been told that if a woman sits flat on the seat of a trishaw (or three-wheeler, or a tuk tuk, a common three-wheeled transport in Asia), especially one without good suspension, the vibrations can drive her mad! As I was told: 'Press your vagina firmly down on the seat of the trishaw and enjoy the ride!" (Just don’t let the driver know.) Why not both sit and watch each other? (courtesy RC – Sri Lanka) And of course we all love the famous overnight journey in the sleeper train carriage with our lover (or is that just me?). Play with those jolts and bumps and imagine they are a stranger in the night…
Hot and cold: On a hot day, put some ice in your mouth and carefully suck your partner’s nipples or penis until they go numb. Alternatively, suck on some ice, take it out and quickly suck his penis. Then swish some hot or warm tea in your mouth and go down on him again. Alternate several times for an exhilarating thrill!
Wet and wild: Don’t forget the delights of showering together – tease each other with the temperature and soap each other down.
Pleasure blast: If you are lucky enough to own a bidet then turn the water jet on high and cold on your private parts, or whatever feels good (thanks to RC in Sri Lanka).
Out on a limb: Hold his penis tightly between your thighs or in your armpit. Lots of lube makes this extra special.
Treasure chest: Hold his penis tightly between your breasts – he’ll love pushing into your softness and you can also have easy access to kiss and lick him.
Give 'em a hand: …: Masturbate each other then have him cum on your breasts or back.
I like to watch: Watch each other masturbate – it can be very exciting to see your lover make him or herself cum.
Play time: Vibrators, dildos and other sex toys enable you to vary the size and shape of what is pushed into you, and can be completely safe if kept clean or used with a condom. Women who have never had an orgasm may find that sex toys are the easiest way to achieve this.
A close shave: Ever tried shaving each other 'down there' – it requires a steady hand and not too much giggling, but the power play and control as well as the feel and new access beyond hair can be a very sexy experience.
The tits have it: Some women like their entire breasts to be gently stroked with finger tips; the underside are often super sensitive. Slowly trace big cirlces around the breast, gradually getting smaller as you close in on the nipple. Once you’ve tried it with your fingers, follow suit with your tongue, then pucker up for a nipple suck (courtesy of www.modernloving.com)
Take yourself for a ride: We’ve been told that if a woman sits flat on the seat of a trishaw (or three-wheeler, or a tuk tuk, a common three-wheeled transport in Asia), especially one without good suspension, the vibrations can drive her mad! As I was told: 'Press your vagina firmly down on the seat of the trishaw and enjoy the ride!" (Just don’t let the driver know.) Why not both sit and watch each other? (courtesy RC – Sri Lanka) And of course we all love the famous overnight journey in the sleeper train carriage with our lover (or is that just me?). Play with those jolts and bumps and imagine they are a stranger in the night…
Hot and cold: On a hot day, put some ice in your mouth and carefully suck your partner’s nipples or penis until they go numb. Alternatively, suck on some ice, take it out and quickly suck his penis. Then swish some hot or warm tea in your mouth and go down on him again. Alternate several times for an exhilarating thrill!
Wet and wild: Don’t forget the delights of showering together – tease each other with the temperature and soap each other down.
Pleasure blast: If you are lucky enough to own a bidet then turn the water jet on high and cold on your private parts, or whatever feels good (thanks to RC in Sri Lanka).
