Rethinking rubbers
Fun ways to use a male condom
Lip service: Put it on with your mouth – it’ll drive him crazy! Gently suck the teat of the condom between your teeth (but don't bite!) and then roll it down the penis, licking him on the way down. You can practice on a dildo, vibrator or vegetable (like a cucumber) before doing it on him.
Green means go: Think of condoms as the sign that you are about to be penetrated – the “green light” to get turned on. Open a male condom packet with purpose, as a sign to your partner that you're ready. Carry some when you go out and show him, to illustrate how horny you are.
Slow it down: Put the male condom on him very slowly and relish the process, showing your partner how much you appreciate his penis. Alternatively, ask him to put the condom on himself and, in the process, show you how to touch him just the way he likes it.
Get a little closer: If you are having sex with a regular partner, then research shows that regular thickness or even thinner condoms are no more likely to break when used for anal sex, than thicker condoms. So, get some of those extra thin condoms if you like, and enjoy the closeness!
Shut up and do it: One woman told us that she was tired of sleeping with men who complained and fiddled about wearing a condom. When she slept with her boyfriend the first time and he put a condom on himself forcefully and with conviction, she was really turned on! She knew this was her man …
Less mess: Many women have shyly admitted to us that they like the lack of 'mess' with male condoms – his “gunk” is left inside the condom and not all over the bed or sliding out of you!
More mess: If you like 'mess' then watching a man cum can be a nice sight. So the next time you're fucking your partner, or your partner is fucking you, get them to pull out before they cum, take off their condom, and do it on your chest/breasts or back. Aaahhhhh the feeling of hot cum on the body.
Mix it up: Here's a tip from a pleasure-loving friend ...
'Too often I need to remind, request or organize. So I love it on the rare occasions when someone has just produced [a condom] without prompting. Being sexy with a condom for me includes – a favourite of mine – we put it on together (while talking dirty filth to each other). Then I insist that he gets me really wet by rubbing the end of his cock all over my labia and clit for a long time – I love this from behind, but also sitting facing each other, both with legs wide apart, mine over his. Not such a good position for deep penetration, but very horny ... when you have such good visuals and eye contact, it's very, very sexy and intimate.' (courtesy Julia, UK)
Lip service: Put it on with your mouth – it’ll drive him crazy! Gently suck the teat of the condom between your teeth (but don't bite!) and then roll it down the penis, licking him on the way down. You can practice on a dildo, vibrator or vegetable (like a cucumber) before doing it on him.
Green means go: Think of condoms as the sign that you are about to be penetrated – the “green light” to get turned on. Open a male condom packet with purpose, as a sign to your partner that you're ready. Carry some when you go out and show him, to illustrate how horny you are.
Slow it down: Put the male condom on him very slowly and relish the process, showing your partner how much you appreciate his penis. Alternatively, ask him to put the condom on himself and, in the process, show you how to touch him just the way he likes it.
Get a little closer: If you are having sex with a regular partner, then research shows that regular thickness or even thinner condoms are no more likely to break when used for anal sex, than thicker condoms. So, get some of those extra thin condoms if you like, and enjoy the closeness!
Shut up and do it: One woman told us that she was tired of sleeping with men who complained and fiddled about wearing a condom. When she slept with her boyfriend the first time and he put a condom on himself forcefully and with conviction, she was really turned on! She knew this was her man …
Less mess: Many women have shyly admitted to us that they like the lack of 'mess' with male condoms – his “gunk” is left inside the condom and not all over the bed or sliding out of you!
More mess: If you like 'mess' then watching a man cum can be a nice sight. So the next time you're fucking your partner, or your partner is fucking you, get them to pull out before they cum, take off their condom, and do it on your chest/breasts or back. Aaahhhhh the feeling of hot cum on the body.
Mix it up: Here's a tip from a pleasure-loving friend ...
'Too often I need to remind, request or organize. So I love it on the rare occasions when someone has just produced [a condom] without prompting. Being sexy with a condom for me includes – a favourite of mine – we put it on together (while talking dirty filth to each other). Then I insist that he gets me really wet by rubbing the end of his cock all over my labia and clit for a long time – I love this from behind, but also sitting facing each other, both with legs wide apart, mine over his. Not such a good position for deep penetration, but very horny ... when you have such good visuals and eye contact, it's very, very sexy and intimate.' (courtesy Julia, UK)
